1,179 days...that's how many days it has been since I arrived in the Dominican Republic. 1,179 days or in other words year 4 of being in this country. When did I go from being a newbie to being a veteran? I think I felt most like a veteran this past weekend when I took my roommates and another friend to my "old" stomping grounds of Jarabacoa. I gave them their "first taste" of the campo and showed them the ways of the motoconcho, which is the only way to travel in Jarabacoa. Now they have officially been baptized in the Dominican Republic culture. Trust me, you aren't truly Dominican until you have taken a moto ride. I of course insisted that they ride the motos to the "salto or waterfall...thus trial by fire as it is a 20 minute moto ride. (didn't tell them any of this before hand or that it was up a mountain)... But it is/was a beautiful view and once you realize that a moto is basically a glorified bike with a motor (and doesn't go that much faster) you discover that it is the only way to travel, at least in the campo.
My favorite part about Jarabacoa is its small town feel and that every time I visit, it feels like coming home. I ran into at least 10 people I knew (only 2 of which were on purpose) Some of those rendezvous(es?) came in handy as it was a friend driving by in a car. Sadly, I am convinced that all of my bible study friends have a story of me chasing after them for a ride, and now with this adventure, the saga continues. (Yes, Joyce, Amanda, Renee and Mallory, Suzanne has officially joined the "Has been chased down by Kara" club)
It is also really fun to show people around who have never been to a place. You get it to see it all over again with fresh eyes and are less likely to stay inside and make a "butt print on the couch." I got to show my friends the best salto (waterfall) of Jarabacoa where the beginning of Jurassic Park was filmed and take them to my favorite restaurants. Also, I got to show them some of my favorite nature points such as the Confluencia where three rivers meet .
The more difficult part of knowing a place is that you are expected to know how to get around and have connections, which I do...but comically too many. Anyways, getting ahead of myself. While at the hostel I was looking for a moto concho driver in my contacts. Again, it has been years since I put numbers in, so I was hoping I would have a name instead of walking all the way into town to the station. In my phone was the name Anthony and Anthony is the name of the moto concho driver. So, I messaged him asking for a moto ride for me and my friends to the salto. I also went ahead and called him and spoke with him on the phone. I asked him for a ride to the salto and to bring another moto for my friends. He said he was on his way up the mountain to fly, but would come and get us in about half an hour. I found that statement odd, but didn't look into it. Half hour passed an hour passed. I was scrolling through my phone and found past conversations with Anthony in Whatsapp. Long story short I found the below picture
The Anthony I called was the Anthony I had gone para gliding with. He apparently must have thought I was asking for him to pick my friends up to go paragliding. EEKS!! I quickly tried to get ahold of him again to explain my error. It took several long conversations to get him to understand that NO we weren't planning on going paragliding, I had simply made a mistake. Oops. That would've been a surprise for my roommates, if a moto ride isn't scary enough, let's jump off the mountain.
All that to say it's year 4 and I'm beginning to feel more of a "veteran" than a newbie. Kind of like my senior year of college verses when I arrived as a scared little freshman 3 years ago. I have grown a lot, I don't see it in the day to day routine, but here is a list of things I can do now that I really hadn't ever done and would have scared me when I came 3 years ago.
1. Can now speak on the phone in Spanish and not just to order pizza
2. Conquered riding a moto
3. Checked paragliding, canyoning and white water rafting off my to do list here in the D.R.
4. Can pay electricity and internet bills (adulting I know)
5. Can get around the country using the bus system as well as the metro system. (getting on and off the bus by myself used to scare me, but now instead of riding one bus directly to Jarabacoa and back, I ride a guagua, a bus and take the metro because I've discovered it is "simpler" and well I like it better.
6. Can make food that is edible (not just bake cookies)
7. Can and love using Uber (I bought my first smart phone last year just because of Uber )
8. Have Whatsapp, and Instragram (officially entering the technological era, a couple years late)
9. Can arrive late to an event ( the fact that everyone in the country arrives late to every event used to frustrate me, now I guess, if you can't beat 'em...join 'em)
10. Can Trust God Completely- This one has been my favorite lesson and one I'm continuing to learn. 1,179 days ago to the day I was on the floor of my room, literally on my knees not knowing how I was going to make it away from my family and everything I knew for a week, let alone a year. But then something incredible happened, God showed up. He showed up in incredible inexplicable ways reminding me that even when I'm weak, He is strong and will always be there. This is my testimony. I am a hopeless homebody and that has not changed. I am and was that one kid who always cried at summer camp, college and even on any trip that felt foreign. I'm in year 4, the 1,179th day of living abroad and I'm not homesick. Why? Because God is here, and He's taught me that where He is, I'm home.